jonbolden wrote:LunaP wrote:I hope you're back on your Buddy soon!
Thanks LunaP!
The thing is... I'm wondering if it's just time to sell the buddy and throw in the towel.
What are y'alls experience with that? Did anyone quit riding after their accident? Anyone consider selling it and being done? I wonder how I will in a few weeks / months.
I've only known scooter life for a year. I rode cupcake on Lokky's Stella until an unfortunate incident attempting to avoid hitting a cat led me to be carless last August... so I bought a 170i. Purchase date Sept 16th 2011. Halloween weekend, I made a rookie mistake second-guessing how fast a car was going and rather than chance getting creamed by the speeder, I layed the scoot down HARD and broke my hand in the process. First time in my life I
ever broke anything. It was my throttle hand and a bad break in a finger and a sprain/overextension in tendons, sprain the wrist... I went back to being a cupcake, usually on my own scoot nonetheless, and didn't start driving myself again until late November/early December. When I did start again I was a little nervous, but only in a lot of traffic or in group rides. Nervous of breaking hard, but happy to be driving myself again.
At the end of January, I set out on errands like any normal day, and 2 blocks down the road some guy pulled out in front of me from a side street with no room because he hadn't seen me. I crashed right into the passenger side of his car, my left leg was caught in the wheel well. I'll spare the gory details, but I went into a 6-hour surgery with the ER doctors warning me they'd probably have to amputate. I still have my leg, but suffice it to say it will never be normal.
When I can walk again, I will get back on the Stella with Lokky. I may not be able to drive my own by myself, but if I give up scooters, something I really enjoyed... then how can I claim to have risen above what happened to me? It's a personal decision and everybody has to make it for themselves, and I'll be riding with armor on my pretty much everywhere at all times now, but to me, quitting because of this isn't the way to deal with it.
If you're new to it, it can be frustrating. I picked up the very basic of basics (getting on and zooming around the parking lot) extremely fast. But learning the ins and outs of day to day driving is not a finite experience- it's ongoing. People who think they know everything about driving, esp on a two wheeled vehicle, are fools. Before I broke my hand, and after once, I laid the scoot down with no damage to me or it and low or no speed for varying reasons- I took a low curb at the wrong angle, somebody in front of me did the opposite of what they were signalling or didn't check their blind spot when merging and since I wasn't confident I could brake in time I chose to jam the brakes and drop it, etc. Truth is that that stuff won't stop in 5 years of riding... in 5 years of riding a scoot, you'll always hit the curb at the right angle because you've done it 1000 times, but you still can't account for the other drivers on the road. Even if you dress yourself and drive defensively, you can still get hurt... those things don't prevent anything, they just reduce the risk. Many people are nervous or hesitant or have doubts about something after they've had an accident or a drop, especially if they are new (I know I was)... it's something that can be overcome. Again, it's a choice you have to make for yourself, but if you really enjoy it and esp if you are a newer rider, don't throw in the towel yet. Don't give yourself such a hard time. Hop on and tell yourself you're going to learn from the experience. That's my 2 cents.